Monday, November 30, 2009
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Last Sunday we went to Silver Dollar City. In the past it's been chaotic and stressful, with a little fun thrown in. This time it was just fun!
We went with a single stroller, we didn't have any major meltdowns (okay, one at the end with Annie, but we were in line for the tram ride to the car, so that doesn't count, right?!) , we took our time, we rode rides, we ate yummy stuff, we enjoyed the Christmas lights...it was a wonderful day! We even got...A GOOD FAMILY PICTURE! Amazing!
And every now and then we don't get it right...
Monday night we decorated our family tree together. It was the only time we could do it before Thanksgiving, and I really wanted to get it done. So even though we were all still worn out from all the Silver Dollar City fun, I had Jason set up the tree, and I dragged the boxes out. It was chaos from the start. As I straightened tree branches, the kids were being wild. Jason was grumpy, I was cranky, and the kids were exhausted. When we started decorating, things went downhill fast. I may have shouted out a few things like...
Be Careful! Stop it! NO, I WILL DO THAT! Stop it! NOT THERE! I thought I told you to STOP! NO FIGHTING OVER THE ORNAMENTS! Okay, everybody just CALM DOWN. Would SOMEONE (and obviously by "someone" I meant Jason) watch Austin?! Okay FINE, put him to bed!
And then finally, the cherry on top was when I shouted...
THIS WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN! NOW I JUST WISH I WOULD HAVE DONE IT BY MYSELF!
So that wasn't quite the "picture perfect" moment that I'd envisioned.
But it's okay. We have our good moments, sometimes even great moments, and we have our totally insane moments.
That's what a family is all about!
Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I hope you had some great moments of your own this weekend.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Now it's my girls, and my nieces, and me, singing at the top of our lungs to Hannah Montana in my car.
This is one of those full circle moments that is totally awesome! I wish I could have videoed it, it was so darn fun and cute. I'm sure there will be a next time though, and I'll get that video then! A pic will do for now...
Fun times in the 'burban!
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
In case you don't...
In junior high and high school, my friends and I would yell CHINESE FIRE DRILL when the car we were in was stopped at a traffic light. Everyone would jump out of the car, run around the car, and then jump back in. The goal being to be back in the car before the light turned green!
It was a silly, fun game. Harmless really. Even my mom allowed it during church youth group road rally scavenger hunts!
She was a cool mom. Still is!
So why am I thinking about that now?
Yesterday I jumped out of my own car at a red light. Not for a Chinese Fire Drill, but to retrieve a dropped sippy cup, and jump back in. About 5 minutes later, I did the same thing, only to retrieve a dropped blankie.
You see, I drive a Suburban, and I cannot reach the dropped things from the drivers seat, especially since Annie and Austin usually ride in the "very" back, as we call it. That's when those expando arms would come in handy!
But since I'm not the mom from The Incredibles, I jump out of the car at stoplights, and jump back in. I use my lightning fast reflexes (HA!) that I learned years ago, to stop a screaming child in it's tracks.
All those Chinese Fire Drills prepared me to be a 'Burban driving mother of three.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Annie and Tessa!
My sweet friend Janelle and my Super Man.
My sweet Tinker Bell!
This year I let go of dressing the kids in a "theme". I knew it would happen eventually, and you know what? It was ok! They still looked cute! Oh the silly things I hang on to. One more Halloween goes down in history!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Friends, that's how.
I firmly believe that we, as parents, are responsible for our children's discipline, teaching them good morals, and responsibility, and about God's endless love.
It gets overwhelming though, sometimes. How am I supposed to keep all the plates spinning? Between the hours of 4 and 8, we usually have an "extra" activity or two, homework, playtime, dinner, baths, reading time, and finally bed! By that time every night I am totally wiped out. And compared to some of our friends, our schedule is light!
Sometimes I have a little pitty party, because our family owns a business, and my husband can't just take time off if I need him to. He works a lot of hours and Saturdays, We have stores to run, no matter what. So every now and then, I get frustrated, and cry and stomp my feet, and wish he had an easier job so he could help me out. And then I remember that our business is doing okay. That his hard work takes care of us. That he is a wonderful husband and father, and he loves us so much. And I remember that yes, I need help, but God has provided that too.
If I am running late for school pick-up, I have a list of friends I can call (and often do!) If I have to be in two places at once, I have family that can "replace" me in one of those places. If I am sick, I know there are people who love my children, that can help me take care of them.
We help each other. We love each other. And when my friend called, we were there for her. It might take two or three friends to get the job done. And in the end, you might have to figure out who has what kid where! But it all works out.
So today, this first day of November, this is what I am thankful for. Family and Friends that I can count on.